Today it was being discussed with the kids how my soon to be exwife is not only getting 1 kitten which the older daughter fostered from a stray cat. But now a 2nd kitten is being purchased so both daughters can have their own cat. Why?
Because when my wife was going through her parents divorce as a teen her mom let her sister have an indoor dog. She had always wanted one and never got a dog of her own. She felt it was unfair. As a background the family always had plenty of dogs and cats on the ranch, just no specific indoor pets.
So because she is jealous of her sister and felt he needed her own dog she is getting another cat. We already have 2 and now post divorce will be caring for 4 cats. Why don’t they take the existing cats? Because the current cats are outdoor/garage cats and they want their i.e. spoiled flea free indoor cat so they are leaving the cats to get 2 more. Makes no sense to me. The kids will live with me and the two cats half time, they will get dropped off here every day to catch school bus. They will return here everyday after school. They get the cats they have. When my wife said the other daughter wanted the kitten that younger daughter stated it did not but that mom was pushing for a 2nd cat. What is going on is my wife is reliving and recreating her childhood divorce by pushing stuff onto the kids. It is my wife who needs to go to counseling.
As the day goes on she announces to our 11 yr old son that she approves of him playing games depicting shooting people. This has been a rule we have not allowed with any prior children. She says she thinks he is old enough. No consulting with me. We’re still married and living in the same house. She does this and shortly after is watching the Castle TV show which depicted a person, potentially a parent who gets torched while tied up in the trunk of their car by a sadistic person. These kind of violent shows has also been a point of conflict. She has watched these for a few years and the shows get worse and worse. Our children were raised with no broadcast tv for 15 years and in the past 5 she started more and more watching shows via the Internet as a couple we agreed on providing only uplifting media for the kids. She has undermined some of this family though mainly the daughters. The oldest is allowed to watch all kinds of horror movies and the youngest daughter is the one who watches the violent shows with her mom. I truly hope I can redirect the kids when they can get away from the trash for 2 weeks a month with me. I can successfully redirect the kids to good activities when I am around and they prefer it. The 2 boys will not participate in the tv shows at all by their own choice.
Of al the quality traits I saw and chose in my wife, they have all but disappeared. I no longer even see the person I chose. The person who I put up with for the kids sake disgusts me and I see her as a threat to a quality upbringing I hoped for my kids. I don’t fear for their physical safety with her but worried her twisted mind will do harm mentally.
It’s tough seeing someone like my wife who has no ability to process logic, consistency and wisdom at all.
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Today as my wife and estranged wife were on a drive she offered an apology for not being a good wife for me. This caused me to choke up not because I felt her sentiment but because the divorce in process by her hand is not what I wanted. Granted I am sick and tired of being taken for granted. Tired of her being a messy pig who does as little as possible to co parent but would rather be the kids friends. What I felt was the utter sadness for what is about to happen to the kids. I am going for split custody to try to keep the family house, keep them in their same school and friends. The real disaster will happen as my earning potential is stripped to pay for a selfish woman who wants her own place and be free of any obligation of a husband but with all the benefits. She wants to be friends and have me help her, consult her and still be her friend. She currently has taken about every Liberty she can in this marriage and abused it already but now she will kill the sacred cow so she can have her “fair share” which she does not deserve but our crooked laws based on old traditions screwed the men for the bitches benefit. Why? Because the bitch was the one who was going to run the family and keep things together while the wayward husband did his thing and was made to pay. But what happens when the bitch is the shitty parent and wants the kids for the money. What if the bitch does not run the house of family affairs and see everyone’s need is met. The courts are blind to Justice in this country. There is no such thing as justice as long as biased lawyers are judging. The system automatically serves the bitch and fucks the dad over.
In my case this will cause a brutal blow to the families foundation. It will disservice the children immensely but making sure they are ignored and prevent them from having the opportunities in life they would have had if the parents were both thinking of them.
My wife has offered many apologies over the years of being a bad wife and companion to me. But an apology has more aspects than just the apology. A real apology has like the act of repentance a component of restitution when possible and a change of action. You cannot apologize for an action and then keep doing tha act to which you apologize. Doing so just makes the offender a hippocrite. So why does someone offer empty apologies over and over. Either they are just as dumb as a rock or strategically manipulating the other party hoping they are as dumb as a rock to accept such apology as valid. There lies the reason for my divorce. I am not as dumb as a rock though I take the empty apology and accept it at face value but offer no term of accepting it. I just listen to it. To which end I have continue my contempt for her waiting for the next part of the apology to materialize. Waiting for the change of behavior to manifest itself. To my dismay, I have never in 20 years seen a change of behavior that shows any reinforcement that she meant her apology. What I have seen is her taking more and more liberties to the opposite and giving her more and more to apologize for. In the end her final move. She feels she can no longer take any more liberties and advantage unless she leaves and takes everything she can including her children’s rights to their fathers providing, unjust portion of the fathers income and rights to the children’s themself Andrade to provide nothing to the father, not even consideration. He is to be sacrificed for her selfish purposes. All because she has and is a cunt. The only thing that women have to their advantage. If GOD has a wife I can only imagine what a bitch she is to have encouraged him to make more of them. We can tell from the bible Eve was an afterthought and likely because his bitch had an issue with the situation.